This is one of the many candies that Special K got to suck for being a good patient

This is one of the many candies that Special K got to suck for being a good patient
Courtesy of Special K

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Sex!!! Let’s talk about sex!

Do you really enjoy sex? What kind of sex are you having? What is good sex? Are you the guy who “busts a nut” in five minutes then falls asleep? Are you the guy who does not even care whether or not his partner enjoys the experience? Do you suffer from erectile dysfunction, low sex drive, and all of those other factors that keep guys from having sex?

Many guys don’t care about the process that occurs before or during the sexual experience. They just want to ejaculate and be rid of the fluid that has been building inside of them. Sex is fun-- if not the most fun thing on earth. American society teaches you to keep sex in the closet. And most people feel uncomfortable and ashamed for enjoying sex—if you are not already suffering from a guilty conscious. Aside from all the fun, sex is a physical/contact sport that requires stamina, imagination, and spontaneity. You must be in decent shape or at least have control of your muscle to enjoy good sex. You must also be comfortable within your own skin and your physical appearance to eliminate all the hang-ups that keep you from being a good sex partner. That does not mean that you need to have a six-pack, look like Hercules, look like a super model or a playboy bunny. You just need to be comfortable with you.

Because sex in the dark, on the same bed, at the same time, and the same positions are all ingredients from a very boring sex life. Imagination is your best ass-et.

All that pushing, thrusting, humping, gyrating, spanking, and changing positions can get to a guy. Some cardiovascular exercises for the heart and some breathing techniques to control the heart rate are essentials to create a good lasting sexual experience. If you pay attention to your breath, your lower abdomen, and your lower back, you can energize and revitalize your life. I call theses areas the “shagging Zone” or the “forgotten zone” because no matter how good of a shape you are, how much you work out, if you don’t do specific exercises to target those areas you will not be aware of the muscles that you are not using. By paying more attention to your breath and the lower half of your body, you will eliminate back pain, erectile dysfunction; low sex drive, and premature ejaculation .You will strengthen your lower body, learn to use your entire spine from you head to your tail bone, which will in turn increase blood flow throughout your entire body and the blood flow will increase the size of your penis. Yes, you can get a bigger penis just by activating your lower abdomen. Also, activating your lower abdomen will allow you to be aware of your sphincter muscle and that will allow you to have out-of-this-world-orgasm if that’s what you want. But if you rather keep shagging without the inconvenience of stopping and reloading (waiting to get hard again), then some specific exercises and your mind will do the job.

Your mind can work for you or against you. That depends on a variety of circumstances including how hot or ugly the girl is. So instead of thinking about ejaculating, think about enjoying the sexual activities. Of course, women do not have to worry about ejaculating and the “ down time” that comes with it. Being conscious and present are important ingredients to good sex but most guys have no clue what that entail. That does not mean you can't learn and thanks to Viagra, ciallis, and other potency drugs, guys can go for days. But sex gets boring and tiring too: if you are just drilling away like “Saddam Hussein drilling for oil.”

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